The False twin flame versus the Real twin and how to spot the difference!

Twin flames or twin Rays are said to be two halves of one soul. Each half possesses the same energetic vibrational signature. They are destined to meet and experience an inexplicable, sacred connection when they do. Some theories suggest that twin flames only meet when in their last sojourn on Earth, as these souls have lived many lifetimes and are considered as ‘old souls’ some may be in remembrance of past lives.

In Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves…and when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself… the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other’s sight, as I may say, even for a moment… – Plato, The Symposium

There seems to be a lot of confusion in the Twin Flame community about the possibility of having more than one Twin Flame, which basically only makes this journey more difficult than it already is. There is only one twin, the others are false twin experiences or teachers, soulmates are a totally different concept but one that also fits into the 144’000 soul group bracket.

One perfect Divine mirror is already confronting enough, why would you need multiple?

The twin flames are the total sum of 144’000 that are equally spilt into 72’000 males and 72’000 females.

I do believe Twin Flames to be the last (final split) in the soul group/family splitting of the soul. Think of water from the sea as an analogy then a whole bucket would be the soul group and Twin Flames would be together in one drop of water, they are each other’s EXACT vibrational frequency match. Just remember even a half drop, when viewed by itself is still a whole drop of water – it’s lacking nothing. If you are in a true Twin Flame connection, you have to heal co-dependency in order to actually be with your twin in the physical.

The vibrational signature is where the two twins balance each others energies, for example, if one twin is more receptive the other will compensate and balance this energy with an equal opposite force of control! Or one twin may be more introverted, the other half will have an equal amount of energy that extroverted. One twin will be the social butterfly; the other will be socially awkward and uncomfortable! That’s how the twins balance their innate energies, complimenting each other – perfectly!

The Twin Flame connection is a 5th dimensional frequency relationship and when you meet your twin you actually enter a cycle in which you burn off karma until you are karma free.

Most Twin Flames might feel like they are going crazy at times on this journey, but this journey is in fact for the hyper sane not the people who are suffering mental disorders. Shifting out of 3D (which is the agreed upon norm) into 5D (which defies everything we have been taught in 3D) is scary as hell and it can leave you questioning your sanity!

However, reality isn’t what it seems to be, illusions are alluring and with so much narcissism around, it’s difficult to distinguish who is a REAL soul mate and who is FALSE. Your true twin flame will be perfectly in sync with you; they are your destiny and you are theirs. On the other side of the coin, your false twin will appear to be your perfect ‘mirror’ at the beginning until they reveal their true self!

Mirroring you!

Twin flames are said to mirror each other physically, emotionally and spiritually. Meeting a true twin flame can feel like meeting your perfect half, as if you’ve known each other your whole lives, even if you’ve just met. It’s as if you’ve known each other from many different lifetimes – and your connection from the beginning can be described as electric.

However, if you’re with a false twin flame a narcissist or a psychopathic empty shell holder, they can manufacture this mirroring and fabricate the soulmate effect by pretending to share your same values, interests, hobbies, and passions to get you hooked initially. This is known as idealization, love-bombing and grooming, and it’s quite different from actually meeting someone who genuinely resonates with you on a soul level. What’s really happening is the false twin has no source connection and operates on an egoic level as opposed to experiencing the true feelings of love and togetherness, unconsciously; the false twin is actually sucking the life force out of you! Physically you will notice this by feeling drained, lethargic and exhausted in energy!

Encourages growth

Your true twin flame will cause you to grow in healthy ways; your false twin flame will destroy you and cause you to self-destruct. The false twin does not want you to progress, evolve or grow to better yourself, they want your power because they don’t have any themselves.

While a true twin flame will feel like somewhere you can go for emotional shelter, your false twin will feel like a danger zone, a war zone even, you’re continuously walking on eggshells, biting your nails in anxiety, in fear of their unpredictability and volatile moods, while with the true twin, you’re thrust into constructive self-examination and mutual growth.

While it’s common for the journey with a twin flame to be somewhat unrestrained in that egos are being purged and traumas are surfacing to be healed, a true twin flame will never purposely set out to hurt you, whereas a false twin flame will deliberately create chaos in your life through tactics such as gas lighting, evading, triangulating, provoking and taunting you. They may even physically harm you! They won’t have much or even any empathy for your needs and they will subject you to unnecessary and excessive trauma. The purpose of the false twin is to make you realise your worth and potential, although they are empty and void of soul or source, their role is to wake you up to what love truly is!!

Runner chaser dynamics!

It’s common for there to be a chaser and a runner and for the roles to be reverse occasionally. However, in a false twin flame relationship, you’re ALWAYS THE ONE CHASING while the false twin, can’t be caught because they don’t really exist, they’re an empty shell, looking for energy – yours’.

The runner-chaser dynamic in a twin flame relationship is what causes a lot of confusion due to the intensity of the twin flame connection, it’s common for one or even both of the twin flames to run in the other direction because meeting them is like confronting all of your own weaknesses, wounds and even the strength of your own power, which is all reflected back to you.

In a false twin flame connection, your wounds and weaknesses are used against you to make you chase after them in a race that will never end. This dynamic is embedded in a larger cycle of toxicity were the narcissistic partner gives you crumbs of love and intimacy, to keep your hope alive, to keep you by their side, to keep you hoodwinked all while subjecting you to numerous betrayals, deceptions, lies and transgressions. The person you’re chasing is someone who does not really exist? He or she is a black hole, a void, an empty mask, a shell holder with nothing inside or underneath.

Joint mission

A true twin flame connection has a greater mission in this life and this will become clearer. A false twin flame may act as a catalyst for your mission, but in order to move forward with your purpose, you’ll have to let them go!

A true twin flame merges with you on your mission whatever that mission may be. Twin flames are the ultimate ‘power couple’ in that where one is weak, the other is strong, they balance their strengths and weaknesses between them, and so their combined gifts and talents are a strong force in the world that can create massive change and influence.

A false twin flame holds you back from your dreams and goals, isolating you, demeaning you, and undermining you so they don’t lose control of you. The false twin DOES NOT want you to grow, and will use every manipulation tactic they can employ, to make you remain at their side, it could even become a damaging and abusive relationship which you must leave.

A true twin flame would not intentionally hurt you, because they know they are causing the same hurt to themselves! A false twin is consumed in envy and jealousy, which drives their control and ego! Ruthless and damaged to the core, a false twin will give you powerful lessons about what love is and what love isn’t!

You’ll eventually have to let the false twin flame go at some point, because they will either drag you down to depression and despair, through the endless taunts and trials they continually test you with, to hang onto a false twin flame beyond the expiration date of the relationship will hinder you and your dreams, not help you, and that’s the purpose of the false twin. The life lessons you’ve had with them will have already served as the catalyst to your greater purpose by purging your traumas and bringing up unhealed wounds.

A true twin flame, on the other hand, will make you feel invincible, like anything and everything is possible. They will encourage you to achieve greater heights, with or without them. They are designed to be your perfect companion, who will inspire you towards great personal growth.


A false twin flame’s exit from your life clears the path to your true destiny; your true twin flame is your destiny and union with them brings great joy, unconditional love and clarity, not confusion, misery and despair.

Some theories state that twin flames aren’t always necessarily meant to be in a romantic commitment, when true twin flames do come into true union after a period of separation, it is a union of perfect clarity and peace. The love between you two will be felt deeply at a soul level, and the love will be unconditional, you won’t have to put in so much effort to make them decent people because they already are. The unconditional love between you both is a bond that you honour as sacred whether it is platonic or romantic.

The false twin flame, on the other hand, is usually incapable of this form of inner work and growth which is why they need you! Their demand for unconditional love is one based on their own personal interest and they just want you to tolerate their mistreatment, exploitation and even abuse, in the name of love.

Thankfully, their exit from your life is said to clear the path for your true twin flame, your true other half to enter. The way you feel around a true twin flame is that you will feel assured of your own worthiness not constantly questioning your worth.

The Twin flame is a connection unlike any other, because all levels of the body mind and soul are interconnected. The connection crosses through all barriers and the connection will be felt via a pull in the chakras.

A 3D relationship with a soul mate requires the sexual energy of the sacral chakra, a pull in this area indicates the relationship is based on lust and physical attraction. Here, the connection includes the lower mind, which also connects to the solar plexus and includes intuition. This connection incorporates the physical body that is needed for consummation of the sacred union.

A 4D relationship with a soul mate requires a meeting of two minds, where the third eye and the crown chakra will activate. You fall in love with their mind and vice versa. The mind to mind connection is necessary as you will be able to communicate via telepathy. Once the connection is cemented, communication is usually through telepathy, as you will know what the other is thinking. This part of the connection is what scares many twin flames from uniting, as it will be impossible to lie to a twin flame, they can look into your mind and read it. Which is why the runner – chaser phase can sometimes last, a long time.

A 5D connection is a combination of both 3D and 4D attraction, which is activated via the upper heart chakra, here you will feel a pull, above the heart, in the same way you feel the tug in the sexual chakra. With a twin flame connection, you will definitely feel this tug, and this is the indication that you have surpassed the ego type of relationship and the subtle, soul body has recognized and welcomed the soul, mind, body connection.

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